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Friday, September 25, 2015

Boobs

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We’d been all marvelling at the incredible grandeur of the house’s gowns until a stylist’s decision insinuated that there was something to hide.

Certainly, in an every day commercial context, it’s a bit of a different story. The day before fashion week started, I caught the subway out to a shoot job past Prospect Park (Brooklyn) in a tank, no bra, and a skirt that covered my ankles. I spent the 500m walk from the subway exit to the studio door flipping off more counts of this commentary than words I’d spoken to anyone between landing in NY and getting dressed that morning. And I’m a small nerdy Asian girl.

Some mornings later came the indecision of whether I ought to wear a nude or black bra under this lacy Zimmermann affair. Should it look as if I wasn’t wearing a bra, or should I make a point that I was wearing a bra to avoid any unwelcome confusion? Like Marchesa’s nipple pasties, would the black bra make sexual what was not actually sexual? I thought myself in circles about succumbing to social pressures and ended up going with the black based purely on aesthetics, and because it was actually a bikini top.

My mother still texted me in capital letters the minute I Instagram-ed it, though.

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On the flipside, my legend of a guide, Youssef, who I travelled with for two weeks in Morocco also had it right. In conversation from Chefchaouen to the edge of the Sahara, we talked about headscarves and covering up. Why would a woman even need to share her body with anybody but the partner she cares abouthe mused. Self-expression? I offered, somewhat lamely.

So it’s settled.

Society at large isn’t ready for boobs.

I’m probably not ready for boobs.

Vent your spleen.

LOOK 1 wearing Zimmermann Arcadia Knot Lace Blouse, Her the Label Bikini Top, Tibi Suede Wrap Skirt, Cmeo Collective Union Pant, Senso Roxi II Heels, BOYY Lucas Bag

LOOK 2 & 3 from Marchesa’s SS16 show at the St Regis Hotel in New York

LOOK 4 from TOME’s SS16 show at Skylight Clarkson Sq in New York (featuring Gentle Monster sunglasses)

LOOK 5 from Delpozo’s SS16 show at Pier 60 in New York

LOOK 6 from Wes Gordon’s SS15 show at Milk Studios in New York

*unfortunately, this does still happen at times in fashion, as it does in other creative and non-creative fields, and it’s going to take a lot more than #freethenipple to overcome that.

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